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Life can have us running around in circles, ever in the search for truth, clarity, and purpose. From our earliest of days and years, foundations are laid that push us, our minds, and our bodies, in certain trajectories. How much of that time do we devote to pausing, breathing, and contemplation?

In a world that largely favors productivity, we’ve been lost for generations in the endless pursuit of material things, achievement, and competition. In every arena, be it commerce, government, education, military, and the religions, it’s more about measurement and metrics than anything else.

Naturally, the social, mainstream, and entertainment media reflect all of the same themes, over and over again; heroes, self-sacrifice, power struggle, violence and love, love and violence, brutality and gore, political agendas, propaganda, and the glorification of sociopathy and psychopathy. These ideas reinforce distortions, and desensitize and make “normal” that which is darkest about the human experience.

Of course it exists. Of course we are capable of untold horrors. But these are extremes, and only part of the vast spectrum. We’re led to believe that this life, this reality, only consists of polarity; it only has us as good, or evil—and almost always, we must have to suffer, and to struggle, and to overcome, to maybe attain a goodness, and a deserved virtue and honor.

This is a very destructive, constricting belief system. Good is not a ceiling. What about enlightenment, awakening, transcendence, and love? What about collective evolution, and Christ Consciousness?

I’m sure some of these concepts may have you squirming in your seat. I would be happy about that. But, I wanted to write about acceptance.

All things considered, the more we have to accommodate societal and cultural distortions, the more difficult it becomes to ever discover and embody true acceptance of self. The more we identify with—or feel required to identify with—labels, titles, honorifics, and status denominators, the less we’re inclined or liberated to simply be freely who we are, moment to moment.

You’ll hear the common expressions such as “follow your bliss” and “pursue your passion”, yet these, like many spiritual teachings, are misconstrued and misinterpreted. I’ve established why this is in the previous few paragraphs. Consider your environment, and you’ll know why you feel resistance and inner conflict around these overused expressions…or why you feel guilt and shame for not being “true to your self” and other weighty notions.

Do you meditate to be able to tolerate daily life, or to transcend mind, and the pain body? Do you do yoga to push and stretch and extend your body—to have an escape from calamity—or to know your divinity in motion?

True acceptance and love of self must begin in the space before identity, underneath the carefully considered construct of personality, in the arena of being before doing.

I would wish that you didn’t need to experience fear and violence, as if it were some prerequisite for being human. Unfortunately, the vast majority of us have, or will have to. This, to me, must be by choice, on some level. So, let its realization be for you a source of empowerment.

Become aware of when you may be simply in a state of spiritual bypassing. Go deeper, and you’ll find authentic acceptance isn’t as far away as it may seem.

Solvitur ambulando

© 2019 Trance Blackman

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