Tag: change

courage, fire, and the ashes of shame

for a long time, i was under the impression that i wouldn’t ever feel worthy of a worthy partner in life, if i didn’t make something of myself. to this day, i still don’t quite know what that means, but i know where it came from….


change, or die

life, is change. it is inevitable. if that’s a stressful idea, fraught with anxiety, it’s attached to some notion that anything in this place is anything but transient. you will “die”, so get on with living. the power is in having no expectations, or insistence, as to how anything we desire shows up in our…


summon the winds

we are always capable of fundamental shifts within ourselves, be they instant, or long term, slow burns….


anchors, and the illusive contentment

every choice is an anchor point. in every moment, we can choose a new journey….


eleven percent

for great change to occur, it takes a certain number of the population to believe in it, or to at least have an opinion about it. there are studies on the matter of tipping points, or critical mass. some would suggest it’s 5%, or even less, and some say it has to be over 10%. …