Tag: change

unreliable identity

that which we identify with, owns us. all of our decisions, conscious, and unconscious, stem from that which has been, that which we associate with, that which we adhere to, and that which has been trained into us. in fact, exploring new and unfamiliar territory can be terrifying, for it dwells outside the mould, and…


courage, fire, and the ashes of shame

for a long time, i was under the impression that i wouldn’t ever feel worthy of a worthy partner in life, if i didn’t make something of myself. to this day, i still don’t quite know what that means, but i know where it came from….


change, or die

life, is change. it is inevitable. if that’s a stressful idea, fraught with anxiety, it’s attached to some notion that anything in this place is anything but transient. you will “die”, so get on with living. the power is in having no expectations, or insistence, as to how anything we desire shows up in our…


summon the winds

we are always capable of fundamental shifts within ourselves, be they instant, or long term, slow burns….


anchors, and the illusive contentment

every choice is an anchor point. in every moment, we can choose a new journey….