Tag: relationships

deliberate invention

we really are magnificent, multifaceted creators. even when we’re least aware of it, the world around us is shaped by such subtleties that only the truly alert and aware could notice, usually much after the fact….


bricks and sand

you can’t build a life (or a meaningful relationship, a business, or self-mastery) all at once….


outside of enmity

it doesn’t matter who i want to help, or heal, or fix, or love, if i can’t do it for me….


unsettling

they say don’t settle; it’s better to be alone than to compromise. there is truth in that, and there is weight. in the process of not settling, we can become unsettled, and isolationist. we also put it upon our own self to discern emotional wisdom without an essential objectivity. humans are interdependent, social, energetic, spiritual…


cloak and dagger

it’s interesting the energies that can emerge when we’re in the company of others, especially our would-be catalysts; the masks that suddenly show up, the scripts that suddenly start running, the triggers that unravel, and the cognitive dissonance that can disrupt a basic conversation. afterwards, we might not even recognize that alien entity that just…