you will always attract and thus unwittingly/unconsciously surround yourself with those who match/mirror that which you are, energetically/vibrationally. (slash/slash!)
if you’d prefer to rise above these perceived limitations – to move toward more aligned, higher-functioning individuals – find the better feeling place; the higher resonating thoughts; the love-infused intuitions. there is a lightness to it…
this process starts with gratitude for being exactly where you are, with whom you are. it can be tricky, but the side effect is learning and expanding your awareness. so, win-win. judgement, projecting, blaming – all those frequently reflexive reactions – are also teachers, when you learn to spot them, then regularly let…them…go.
you don’t change people. you change you, initiating a new reality that carries with it a new story and replaces that which came before. you be that change and those ready and willing may come along, or they may not. relevance is relative.
use that which is in front of you as a stepping stone (figuratively) to elevate your game. everything you need is always here.