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Gently Incensed

If you’re like me, you have a tendency to be aware of, or to feel responsible for, the feelings and emotions of others. This can be a disorienting perspective, because you get into the habits of compromising, accommodating, and catering to their needs, at the cost of your own wellbeing.

For much of my life, I’ve done this in unhealthy ways.

Uncoupled

Relationships in our society really do have all the odds stacked against them: Religion and spirituality, finances, education, career, emotional intelligence, values and priorities, sex,…

it’s a shame

sometimes i feel intensely weak and ashamed of not having lived more of a traditional, or socially acceptable life.

chasing the muse

newness is addictive to the extroverted intuitive. we can bounce around careers, vocations, projects, relationships, cities, countries… without taking the time to become really amazing at something.