Tag: relationships

infernal magnetism

attraction is an interesting menace.

as we go through life, slamming into each other, few of us are aware of the less acknowledged hows and whys of relationships. we’re also largely unaware of why we’re so often unconsciously attracted – quite powerfully – to the worst possible candidates for intimate partners….


attunement / atonement

these two words are interesting, as are words and language in general. both attunement and atonement regard and refer to sound, or vibration, and frequency, be it “tune” or “tone”. so it’s no surprise they are, in the important ways, interchangeable….


lifetime

i don’t know how many chances we get in this life to make a real connection….


connection

what we want is not what we really want….


how deep the roots

i’ve never been a confident man.

i’m sure there’s some elaborate formula that would shed light on the hows and whys: this gene, coupled with that circumstance, those parents, that culture, those schools, those books, that trauma, that success, these friends, those choices, those actions, and that value… multiplied by this belief and that evidence, equals this man?…