You can’t have it both ways. The mind will do its thing, the heart will wait. They’re two distinct languages, and are often at ends with each other.
The mind, however, is the only one ever trying to masquerade as the other.
We can cleverly logic and reason choices, and even go forth and do, try to be, wish to have, but the feelings, stirrings, intuitions and emotions want to guide, truthfully.
Patience, presence, and silence.