Tag: communication

the next conversation

say something real.

speak from your authentic space.

bypass that polite, carefully constructed, dancing-around-the-point, maybe-they’ll-infer-what-i-mean bullshit….


incomunicado

when we practice authentic, open communication as a rule, we lose the need to protect ourselves from attack, or to save up “doozies” to assail someone when a defensive moment arrives….


relations

any and every relation-ship serves us consciously, and unconsciously….


the great debate

it’s tough to engage paradigm shifting dialogue when everyone comes into it believing they’re right. it’s an unnecessary, childish heaviness that’s ineffective and destructive, at best. to move forward as a collective, we have to temper the fuck-you, knee-jerk reaction, and ground our concerns in greater compassion, and heart-centered, active listening. it sounds basic, but…


an i for an i

we suffer terribly in this individualistic society. it enforces the polarity of our relationships, within and without. how can we ever truly connect with another when there’s always the need to protect or to keep a part of us, just for ourselves? when there are secrets, power plays, gamesmanship and manipulation, we do not trust…