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A Life à la Carte

We’re born into a system that teaches us to survive but not to truly live — to obey, compete, consume, and conform. In the noise and demands, we forget how to simply be. Yet beneath it all, the truth remains: we’re here to create, connect, and thrive in ways that honor our essence. This is not a call to action but a call to awareness.

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We ache to reclaim our sovereignty from the psychopathy, insanity, and inanity of post-industrial life. Yet we’re terrified of confronting the cycles of lack, struggle, and purposelessness we’ve clung to for so long. These are just programs — not truths.

Somewhere along the way, we were convinced that performing, consuming, achieving, out-thinking, and conforming were the ultimate ideals. But if that’s true, why do we grow more desperate, isolated, and anxious with each passing year?

We’ve been persuaded that the “I” holds all the value, while “we” is a distant, secondary concern. My car, my house, my bank account, my children, my legacy, my retirement. My ignorance.

We’ve reduced ourselves to selfish, servile, monotone creatures, clamoring in a chaos of suppression. So much truth is buried — filed away, distorted, hidden.

The heaviness is palpable, especially in our cities. We walk past the hungry and forgotten, tossing half our industrially-produced food into the trash. We avoid eye contact, shielding ourselves from their shame — and from them seeing our own. We shy away from heartful connection to protect the lies we tell ourselves.

To what end?

“Happiness is a choice,” they say. Forget that. It’s not even on the menu anymore. It’s been blended into a concoction of maligned ideas and overcomplicated offerings. Give me life à la carte.

Enough with the competition, callousness, insensitivity, and egoistic grandstanding. Enough with the selling, shouting, and forcing.

Life is a simpler song — written in the heart’s uncommon rhythms, with a melody that serves the soul. It waits in the stillness, present in our calm.

It’s in a child’s eyes, a father’s laughter, a mother’s smile. It hides in the forest, dances in the river, and is reborn in the sea.

We all have access to life’s ingredients. We can choose to create something healthier, something whole, nourishing, and deeply satisfying.

It’s time to shed this existential weight — this collective burden — with passion, empathy, authenticity, courage, and love. Only together can we rise above this illusion of separation.

Be the truest version of yourself. Look me in the eye, and together, let’s dare greatly.

Esse, non conformari