You can’t have it both ways. The mind will do its thing, and the heart will wait. They are two distinct languages, often at odds with each other.
The mind, however, is the only one ever trying to masquerade as the other.
We can cleverly use logic and reason to make choices, and even go forth to do, try to be, or wish to have, but the feelings, stirrings, intuitions, and emotions seek to guide us truthfully.
Patience, presence, and silence.