have your preferences, but remain open. if you never get to — or have yet to — experience exactly what you’ve always wanted, how do you even know it’s actually what you want?

know your preferences, but let them go, and surrender. trust in life. love is in everyone. relationships can be anywhere. romance and friendship and companionship is something pretty much everyone desires!

it is our attachments and rigidity and fear that keeps us alone, wanting, or pining for that which isn’t for us.

get specific. get clear. get focused. then, get past the vanity of control, the arrogance of martyrdom, and the subservience of victimhood.

you need nothing.

you desire expansion, expression, connection, reflection, and resonance.

everything is here to help you. look again.

solvitur ambulando

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